Pottery – container with cover
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“The Best Way to Predict the Future is to Create it.” – P. Drucker & A. Lincoln
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Pottery – container with cover
English: when everybody is a ‘he’!
English: when everybody is a ‘he’!
When a child addresses everybody as a ‘he’, I wonder if there is a problem with high-frequency hearing loss. The tiny hair-like sensory hearing cells in your cochlea (inner ear) are damaged. There is a problem differentiating certain higher pitch consonants like s, h or f).
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When I hear not
I heard
but I haven’t heard.
Was it a ‘she’ or a ‘he’?
When I hear not
The ‘cat’ is beautiful,
or the ‘hat’ is beautiful?
And can one comb the [h]air?
When I hear not
The teacher’s explanation was simple.
Yet, I couldn’t understand.
Am I ‘stupid’ or ‘slow‘?
When I hear not
I love music
But I can’t get the lyrics.
It’s ‘distorted’ music!
When I hear not
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Hearing screening for babies and school children would have helped eliminate these falsely ‘lost and stupid’ kids in the world of sound.
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Words heal or wound
Words heal or wound
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it is OK
you did great
we are so proud of you!
we will help in your next exercise!
So comforting
so soothing, so reassuring!
Words heal!
she shut herself into her room
drowning in her musical world
cos music speaks, too!
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on the contrary
why are you so stupid?
Why aren’t you like your clever siblings?
We should never have had you
in the first place!
So scathing, so harsh
so cruel, so insensitive!
The boy left that night
roaming aimlessly,
and never came back since.
Regretingly
checking with police station every day
where has he gone to?
Words wound
his heart deeply
Where words fail, music speaks: “Where words fail, music speaks” is a quote by Hans Christian Andersen.
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Two emergencies of bleeding
Two emergencies of bleeding
Little Tom fell from his bicycle.
Everybody at home panicked.
“He is bleeding a lot … a lot! Can you come home, mum?” the older brother cried.
“Listen, boy. Go get a clean towel from the cupboard. Cover the wound. Press to stop the bleeding. Just press. Daddy will be back in a few minutes. I will meet you all at the emergency department.”
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Nurse Chen went back to attend to her two patients. The doctors and nurses were hanging blood, pack after pack, only to see more blood being vomited and passed out. The resuscitation went on for these two regular patients who had cirrhosis liver and bleeding oesophageal varices.
Nurse Chen informed the ER staff to expect her son. He had five stitches on his foot.
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Both are emergencies. The amount blood loss varies. But the perception of ‘a lot of blood loss’ is very real in both contexts!
Prepare the interviewer instead of the differently abled interviewees!
Prepare the interviewer instead of the differently abled interviewees!
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Two mothers and a father
approached Ms Chensp ( a trained and voluntary job coach)
a job for their differently abled child.
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Ms. Chen asked a few managers…
‘Well, we look for someone
who is a good fit for a job!’
hmmm…
‘An interviewee should explain
why they are the best candidate!’
Ohhh…
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Well, I will be bringing
three differently-abled persons.
And what questions would you ask them?
‘Of course…
if they would like to work for us!’
Then, Ms Chen went through with them
some potential questions
and how the interviewers
may ask a question…
so as not to frighten her clients!
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The human resource manager
was friendly enough
‘Hi, Dave, we have
vacancies at our restaurant.
Would you like to work for us?’
Dave answered, ‘no, I don’t think so! ‘
oh, oh…
The manager glanced at Ms. Chen and asked again,
‘I mean, we are so busy here at our restaurant. Would you like to come and help us here?’
‘Sure!’
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‘You can work four hours a day.
Anytime you don’t feel well,
you go home. We will pay by the hours.’
(Many clients were on medications
and may feel sleepy.)
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One employer has six staff members who were trained in the job coach program, too. They understand and supervise this category of staff in the Linen department.
“We have one clerk who was diagnosed with depression. She is still on medications. She has worked for us for about fourteen years now because she is used to the supportive working environment here.”
Oesophageal cancer: “… wanting a taste of food.”
Oesophageal cancer: “… wanting a taste of food.”
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I read “The Taste Of Chocolate (Flash Fiction #35)” by Haoyando. It reminds me of a person with oesophageal cancer who suffered from dysphagia and could not swallow food.
A feeding tube was inserted through the nose straight to the stomach. Liquid food was fed several times a day.
Sometimes, the carer would feed him small spoonfuls of porridge with fish or minced meat. Slowly he would chew and roll the food inside his mouth with his tongue. Then he would spit the chewed food into a bowl.
The carer would strain this mushy food through a siever. This was mixed with the remaining liquid and fed through the naso- gastric tube.
That way he got to masticate the meat with his teeth, stimulated the taste buds on his tongue, and mixed the food with his oral salivary enzymes.
We must grateful for the ability to savour the little moments of joys satiating food!
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Quotes:-
Food is not just eating energy. It’s an experience. – Emoovio
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Sip your tea
Sip your tea
Poem by Prof Lee Tzu Pheng (Singapore Cultural Medallion winner). She was formerly in the English Literature Dept in NUS.
This is a powerful poem on human friendship and loving one another.
No one ever knows
when it’s Time to Go,
There’ll be no Time
to enjoy the Glow,
So sip your Tea
Nice and Slow.
Life is too Short but
feels pretty Long,
There’s too much to do, so much going Wrong,
And Most of the Time You Struggle to be Strong,
Before it’s too Late
and it’s time to Go,
Sip your Tea
Nice and Slow.
Some Friends stay,
others Go away,
Loved ones are Cherished but not all will Stay.
Kids will Grow up
and Fly away.
There’s really no Saying how Things will Go,
So sip your Tea
Nice and Slow.
In the end, it’s really
all about understanding Love
For this World
and in the Stars above,
Appreciate and Value who truly Cares,
Smile and Breathe
and let your Worries go,
So Just Sip your Tea
Nice and Slow.
This poem is beyond all relationships
But made for us all.
When I’m dead.
Your tears will flow
But I won’t know
Cry with me now instead.
You will send flowers,
But I won’t see
Send them now instead
You’ll say words of praise
But I won’t hear.
Praise me now instead
You’ll forget my faults,
But I won’t know…..
Forget them now instead.
You’ll miss me then,
But I won’t feel.
Miss me now, instead.
You’ll wish You could have spent more time with me,
Spend it now instead
When you hear I’m gone, you’ll find your way to my house to pay condolence but we haven’t even spoken in years.
Look for me now-
-Lee Tzu Pheng
Composed by the Singaporean poet Anne Lee Tzu Pheng, this remarkable poem dwells on the nature of time and the relationship humans share. It invites the reader to be present in the moment rather than losing oneself in regret and guilt about the incontrovertible nature of time and lost opportunities. This poem is to remind us to take our time to live life and appreciate the value of life and memories that lives on beyond time and death.
The patience of a ktv room owner
The patience of a ktv room owner
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There are many ktv (karaoke television) apps around including WeSing app. I won’t delve into what the app does. You can read it here yourself.
But whenever there are competitions, I was very impressed at how some ktv room owners sat through, praised and commented on the songs; from croaky singers to excellent singers! They certainly make it a day for some happy singers.
It is a good hobby for many housewives and retirees, of which I am neither, totally!
I usually pop in and out of these rooms and support some singers with flowers or gifts. I don’t have that much time in hand to sit through the whole session, anyway.
And I haven’t had the courage to compete openly yet!
This socialisation and competitive atmosphere is not available if one is to sing using a karaoke set at home as proposed by my family members.
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Rising every time we fall
Rising every time we fall
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Her primary cancer
was in her left breast.
Having undergone surgery,
chemotherapy, and radiotherapy
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Just when she thought
it was all gone for good…
no, it came back…
this time, on her right breast!
So she underwent further
surgery, chemotherapy,
and radiotherapy
… all over again!
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the following episodes
involved the lungs, lobectomy, etc.
it has been forty years
since she was first diagnosed.
She is now eighty three.
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I marvel
at her courage and perseverance
at rising each time,
cancer came back.
There is still a need
for early detection
after each episode,
whenever cancer comes back,
and catch it
before it spreads further.
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And they were certainly
very painful episodes
one had to endure to live
as a fourty-year-old
breast cancer survivor.
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Quote:
“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” – Nelson Mandela
Chen Song Ping 