The daily clergy visitor

The daily clergy visitor

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Every noon time,

an elderly clergy man would stand

at a corner of the busy ward, observing.

Streams of visitors strolled in

towards their loved ones or friends.

Some brought extra fruits and food.

They would hug and kiss

the face or the hands of the patients,

chatting concernly.

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A few lonely patients watched silently,

but their loved ones were struggling

in a hand-to-mouth existence

to feed their family,

let alone afford a trip

from the interior to the city hospital. 

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The clergyman clasped his hands together

in front of his chest

and gestured if he may sit down

next to a bedridden patient.

The patient nodded and pointed

to a chair next to his bed. 

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It was all silence and touch communication

as he peeled an orange or banana

to feed the patient. 

He would wipe the face

and hands of the patient.

And he would just sit for a while

before moving to

the next targeted patient.

Until a security man came in

ringing his bell signalling

the end of the visiting hours.

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Prevent child deaths in parked vehicles

Prevent child deaths in parked vehicles

Lately,  a child was left and died in a locked vehicle again as he didn’t disembark to go to kindergarten.

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time and again it happens

a child dies in a parked car

Is there enough

public awareness campaign?

smart seat alarm sensors?

AI- enabled cameras

to detect motions in parked vehicles?

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is there

community vigilance such as

“see something,  act immediately!

Stricter laws in child care and schools

to report strict’ check- in’ protocols

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Encourage corporate responsibility

to allow flexibility for working parents

and parental strategies

like placing essential items,

handbags, phone in back seat

to prompt checking the vehicle

before leaving it.

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reengineer our environment,

habits and technologies

to prevent another child

dying in a parked vehicle! 

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Chen’s quotes on HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!

Chen’s quotes on HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY

* The day a baby is born,

a mother is born,  too!

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*Gone are the carefree days. Now come the sleepless nights and a baby’s breastfeeding schedules on demand!

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* Here come free weight-lifting exercises, early feeding, and reading sessions!

* Can you believe the once carefree lady is now a supermum? What with baby-sitting, cooking,  WFH projects,etc!

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Listen to this song mama hau (good mothers)!

mama hau (good mothers)

In Definition of “Hospital” by Pope Francis

In Definition of “Hospital” by Pope Francis

Pope Francis wrote this before his death while in the hospital. 

“In Definition of “Hospital” by Pope Francis

POPE FRANCIS always surprises with his reflections:

“The walls of hospitals have heard more honest prayers than churches…
They have witnessed far more sincere kisses than those in airports…
It is in hospitals that you see a homophobe being saved by a gay doctor.
A privileged doctor saving the life of a beggar…
In intensive care, you see a Jew taking care of a racist…
A police officer and a prisoner in the same room receiving the same care…
A wealthy patient waiting for a liver transplant, ready to receive the organ from a poor donor…

It is in these moments, when the hospital touches the wounds of people, that different worlds intersect according to a divine design. And in this communion of destinies, we realize that alone, we are nothing.

The absolute truth of people, most of the time, only reveals itself in moments of pain or in the real threat of an irreversible loss.

A hospital is a place where human beings remove their masks and show themselves as they truly are, in their purest essence.

This life will pass quickly, so do not waste it fighting with people.
Do not criticize your body too much.
Do not complain excessively.
Do not lose sleep over bills.
Make sure to hug your loved ones.
Do not worry too much about keeping the house spotless.
Material goods must be earned by each person—do not dedicate yourself to accumulating an inheritance.
. . .

You are waiting for too much: Christmas, Friday, next year, when you have money, when love arrives, when everything is perfect…

Listen, perfection does not exist.
A human being cannot attain it because we are simply not made to be fulfilled here.
Here, we are given an opportunity to learn.

So, make the most of this trial of life—and do it now.

Respect yourself, respect others. Walk your own path, and let go of the path others have chosen for you.
Respect: do not comment, do not judge, do not interfere.

Love more, forgive more, embrace more, live more intensely!
And leave the rest in the hands of the Creator.”
—Pope Francis 🙏

When a gift is not appreciated…

When a gift is not appreciated…

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A senyru poem

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ever come across 

  gifts unappreciated

and unwanted?

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a gifter so sad

is my gift not good enough?

Should I redo it?

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Are you listening?

Are you listening?

Are you listening to one's endless nagging? 
Is it because one can't seem to get through to you?

Will the list of complaints gets longer
if one cannot find their solutions soon?

Are there hidden messages
that were missed in seemingly 'empty' talks?

Are you listening, listening...
before the sinking, sinking... hand disappears under?

Some people may have the knowledge,
but it takes great patience, efforts, energy and compassion to listen.

It requires knowing
when to step out of the shoe after stepping into it.

And listening in silence is a skill,
interrupting hinders those much awaited expressions and words
that were just coming through...

That is why we have two ears but only one mouth!

A carer for cancer patients once said, 'one must be kind to oneself in order to be kind to others.'

This is because listening
drains one emotionally if one does not recharge oneself in between.

So are you listening?

Quote:-

“Sometimes all a person wants is an empathetic ear; all he or she needs is to talk it out. Just offering a listening ear and an understanding heart for his or her suffering can be a big comfort.”Roy T. Bennett

Crazy Genius or Geniusly Crazy? 6 Real-Life Mad Scientists with Peculiar Habits — Aisles of Life

Scientists are a strange bunch of people, and their ideologies have led to the most incredible discoveries of all time. Unfortunately, some famous scientists were dismissed as morons during their time as many suffered from mental disorders that were not well-understood at the time. In recent times, however, we recognize them as geniuses. But were […]

Crazy Genius or Geniusly Crazy? 6 Real-Life Mad Scientists with Peculiar Habits — Aisles of Life

If you missed the train I’m on…

If you missed the train I’m on…

… you will know that I’m gone. You can hear the whistle blow a hundred miles… I love this song  🛤️🚃

Missing the train I am on… (Photo by Ruslan Zzaebok on Pexels.com)

how many times

have one missed the train

to one’s dream girl or boy?

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how many times

have one missed opportunities

to one’s dream job or career?

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by then you will know

that I am gone…

as the train or life track differs.

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and you can hear

the whistle blows

a hundred miles…

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Quote;-

The only way to be sure of catching a train is to miss the one before it.- Gilbert K. Chesterton

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CLASSMATES AND THE TRICKERY OF LIFE

CLASSMATES AND THE TRICKERY OF LIFE 

Got this (forwarded many times) from an old classmates through my group chat.

Classmates

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There is something both amusing and tragic about classmates.

When we are young, sitting side by side on stiff wooden desks, everything feels equal. We wear the same uniforms, complain about the same teachers, and dream the same big dreams.

We believe that with the foolish confidence of youth, that life will reward us fairly. That the one who topped the class will top in life, that the one who struggled will always struggle, that effort will always equal success.

But life is not a classroom. Life is a trickster, a mischievous storyteller who loves to plot twists.

Then, one day, years later, we meet again at ordinations, weddings, funerals, airports, or by accident at a supermarket. And suddenly, we see what nobody warned us about.

The boy who never did his assignments now owns a mansion. The one who won all the academic prizes is still searching for relevance.
The one who was always quiet now commands boardrooms, while the one who once led every debate now sits in silence, waiting for an opportunity that refuses to come.

And we ask ourselves: How did this happen?

Nobody told us that life does not follow the rules of the classroom. That hard work is important, but so is luck. That intelligence is valuable, but connections sometimes matter more.

That some rise not because they are the best, but because they were in the right place at the right time. That life does not grade us like exam scripts. It rolls the dice, and sometimes, the results are baffling.

There is a good side to all of these: no matter how far life scatters us, when classmates meet again, the years disappear.
Titles do not matter.
Bank accounts do not speak.

We laugh over memories of forgotten nicknames, of teachers we swore we would never forget but now struggle to remember. For a brief moment, we return to a time when we were just young with dreams before life stepped in with its unexpected script.

*And just maybe, that is the real lesson: success is not just about who has more, but about who still has a heart that can remember.*

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This reminds me about the quote:-

It is not what you know but who you know in life.

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Genogram: The genes in family trees

Genogram: The genes in family trees (Senyru)

adult affection baby child
Genes in the family (Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com)

Some family genes

are generational curse

mental illness’s one.

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Breast cancers repeat

among aunties and siblings

Will I get it, too?

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Strokes and heart attacks!

Diabetes in family

Hypertension’s twin.

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Mum and dad died young.

Will I take after grand-dad

in longevity?

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Plot the genogram

Work on escaping clutches

of these heritages!

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Quote:

A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words: Exploring the Use of Genograms in Social Work Practice.

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