Traditional Tuesday – in Sarawak

Traditional Tuesday – in Sarawak

Former students doing the Sarawak dance at the end of the enterostomaltherapy (ET) nursing program. The lady in the middle, Helen Bampa, taught the other two. Helen belongs to an aboriginal group called Kenyah (Orang Ulu). It was a beautiful dance and memory. The latter two had gone back to Vietnam. I miss them all!

According to Helen, the dance is called Ngajat Datun Julut. It is performed during opening ceremonies, welcoming VIPs, and during wedding functions.

Former students ( Nguyen ti Thoung, Helen Bampa, Nyuyen ti Lam) doing the Sarawak dance at the end of the ET program
ET Thoung’s message, 22/5/2021

Wandering grandpa…

Wandering grandpa…

Hold my hand (Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com)

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Hold my hand

least you get lost!

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I read about a grand father who wandered many kilometers away from home. Getting lost may be the first sign of Alzheimer’s.

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“My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she was sixty. She’s ninety-seven now, and we don’t know where the hell she is.”- Ellen DeGeneres

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Slowing down in life

Slowing down in life

Slowing down in life (Photo by Tomas Ryant on Pexels.com)

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what’s that drumming

in thy chest so fast

one has no control.

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what’s that buzzing

in thy head and veins

exploding to the very core!

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what’s that aching

contracted muscles

begging to be kneaded.

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It’s not the siren behind one,

but signs to beware!

How they creep in

insidiously with age…

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“You know you’ve reached middle age when you’re cautioned to slow down by your doctor, instead of by the police.”—Joan Rivers

Missing you

Missing you

Every year passed
is a year closer to you
Tis me, missing you!
woman wearing brown shirt inside room
Missing you (Photo by Felipe Cespedes on Pexels.com)

Very often, when a spouse or partner passes on, one ponders about one’s time too.

This poem expresses the missing of a loved one.

With time, will the feeling of loss diminish?

Quotes:-

  1. “All deaths are sudden, no matter how gradual the dying may be.” ― Michael McDowell
  2. “All of us have parents. Generations pass. We are not unique. Now it is our family’s turn.” ― Ralph Webster

Who is the strongest of them all?

old woman doing makeup in room
Who is the strongest of them all? (Photo by Anna Shvets on Pexels.com)
 Who is the strongest of them all?

Mirror, mirror on the wall,
who is the strongest of them all?
A figure so tiny, so frail,
but she's a matriarch behind a veil.

Besides a man so strong and tall,
is a woman who takes over when he falls.
When the family is cracking and breaking,
that maternal glue is in the making.

See the dame running the family millstone?
The comforting bosom that belies a financial backbone?
So, mirror, mirror on the wall
who indeed, is the strongest of them all?

QUOTES

“You’ve got to stay strong to be strong in tough times.”
– Tilman J. Fertitta

“Sometimes you don’t realize your own strength until you come
face to face with your greatest weakness.” – Susan Gale

Pantun Kanser Payudara

Pantun Kanser Payudara (A poem on cancer breast – revised)

A Woman First‘ is pleased to welcome a guest writer. He is Dato’ Dr. Ziaudin Ahamed Bin Abdul Kareem, an advocate for Quality of Life. ‘Pantun Kanser Payudara’ means a poetry about breast cancer.

A Woman First‘ dengan berbesar hati menyambut penulis undangan. Beliau ialah Dato ’Dr. Ziaudin Ahamed Bin Abdul Kareem, seorang Pengamal Perubatan Paliatif.

Pantun Kanser Payudara

Read by: Zurainawaty A Rahman, PNC, Gp 2/92

“女人优先”很高兴欢迎特邀作家。他是拿督的Ziaudin Ahamed Bin Abdul Kareem博士,生活质量的倡导者。 “ Pantun Kanser Payudara”是一首关于乳腺癌的诗。

The above poem can be summarised as /Puisi di atas dapat diringkaskan sebagai:/以上诗可概括为

Millions of Cinderella

Millions of Cinderella

I love the story of Cinderella. But something just doesn’t make sense!

Shoes (Photo by Anastasia Shuraeva on Pexels.com)

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If shoe size is

a piece of evidence

to find Cinderella,

there must be

millions of Cinderellas

for the prince!

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Disorganisingly organized

Disorganisingly organized

pile of folders
Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com

“He can find a slip of paper or note in his huge pile of disorganized files and books on his table.”

“He said he would file them himself and not to touch anything on his home office-table! It’s off-limit to my habitual cleaning sprees.”

These home-makers complained about their husbands’ untidy office table clutters.

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Quotes:

It’s better to have ten disorganized players than ten organized runners.- Roberto Baggio

A disorganized workspace means disorganized work habits. A sloppy work environment equals sloppy results.- Larry Winget

Do you agree?

Tourists’ Miss Is Our Gain!

Tourists’ Miss Is Our Gain!

Tourists fly thousands of kilometers to see exotic places.
The pristine corners of Port Dickson are ignored.
We have them all to ourselves.
We are not complaining, but feel it’s ironic. – Co-author Toh HL

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Travelling does not have to be expensive
if one cares to appreciate the treasures
around and near us!

Soak one’s self
in the serenity of nature’s beauty,
sounds of rhythmic rolling of waves,
and the distant cries of birds in the forest! – Chen S.P. @ TPTan