Who is the strongest of them all?

old woman doing makeup in room
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 Who is the strongest of them all?

Mirror, mirror on the wall,
who is the strongest of them all?
A figure so tiny, so frail,
but she's a matriarch behind a veil.

Besides a man so strong and tall,
is a woman who takes over when he falls.
When the family is cracking and breaking,
that maternal glue is in the making.

See the dame running the family millstone?
The comforting bosom that belies a financial backbone?
So, mirror, mirror on the wall
who indeed, is the strongest of them all?

QUOTES

“You’ve got to stay strong to be strong in tough times.”
– Tilman J. Fertitta

“Sometimes you don’t realize your own strength until you come
face to face with your greatest weakness.” – Susan Gale

Pantun Kanser Payudara

Pantun Kanser Payudara (A poem on cancer breast – revised)

A Woman First‘ is pleased to welcome a guest writer. He is Dato’ Dr. Ziaudin Ahamed Bin Abdul Kareem, an advocate for Quality of Life. ‘Pantun Kanser Payudara’ means a poetry about breast cancer.

A Woman First‘ dengan berbesar hati menyambut penulis undangan. Beliau ialah Dato ’Dr. Ziaudin Ahamed Bin Abdul Kareem, seorang Pengamal Perubatan Paliatif.

Pantun Kanser Payudara

Read by: Zurainawaty A Rahman, PNC, Gp 2/92

“女人优先”很高兴欢迎特邀作家。他是拿督的Ziaudin Ahamed Bin Abdul Kareem博士,生活质量的倡导者。 “ Pantun Kanser Payudara”是一首关于乳腺癌的诗。

The above poem can be summarised as /Puisi di atas dapat diringkaskan sebagai:/以上诗可概括为

Millions of Cinderella

Millions of Cinderella

I love the story of Cinderella. But something just doesn’t make sense!

Shoes (Photo by Anastasia Shuraeva on Pexels.com)

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If shoe size is

a piece of evidence

to find Cinderella,

there must be

millions of Cinderellas

for the prince!

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Disorganisingly organized

Disorganisingly organized

pile of folders
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“He can find a slip of paper or note in his huge pile of disorganized files and books on his table.”

“He said he would file them himself and not to touch anything on his home office-table! It’s off-limit to my habitual cleaning sprees.”

These home-makers complained about their husbands’ untidy office table clutters.

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Quotes:

It’s better to have ten disorganized players than ten organized runners.- Roberto Baggio

A disorganized workspace means disorganized work habits. A sloppy work environment equals sloppy results.- Larry Winget

Do you agree?

Tourists’ Miss Is Our Gain!

Tourists’ Miss Is Our Gain!

Tourists fly thousands of kilometers to see exotic places.
The pristine corners of Port Dickson are ignored.
We have them all to ourselves.
We are not complaining, but feel it’s ironic. – Co-author Toh HL

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Travelling does not have to be expensive
if one cares to appreciate the treasures
around and near us!

Soak one’s self
in the serenity of nature’s beauty,
sounds of rhythmic rolling of waves,
and the distant cries of birds in the forest! – Chen S.P. @ TPTan

Life as a quadriplegic.

Life as a quadriplegic

Zack has an incredible attitude towards his life as a quadriplegic. His mother is a jewel!

View here: Zack’s life as a quadriplegic.

Dive! (Photo by Oliver Sju00f6stru00f6m on Pexels.com)

This story on Facebook reminds me of two other teenagers who dived and broke their necks.

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The first one was a handsome well-built six- footer on admission. Some unscrupulous persons dumped some solid rubbish and rocks into the water… a spot where he used to dive at a harbour. With complete loss and wasting of his four limbs, he often vented his frustrations and yelled at his mother in the ward. She used to cry outside along the ward corridor. A former colleague visited him at a home some thirty years later. He sold his mouth- paintings and even bought wheelchairs for fellow paraplegics who couldn’t afford them.

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I met the second teenager at Piazza della Indipendenza in Florence. He was on a motorized wheelchair which he could handle with the minimal use of fingers on the buttons. He had spastic quadriplegia. His muscles remained firm and not wasted. His mother and brother were with him. At my request, he demonstrated how he moved around the garden on his ‘machine’. It was about the cost of a car in my country, then.

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Too old to drive?

Too old to drive?

As aging takes its degenerative toll on eyesight, hearing, reflexes and mental faculty, driving becomes a concern.

Too old to drive? (Photo by Ingo Joseph on Pexels.com)

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A senior citizen drove

on a motorcycle lane.

Some drove

against the traffic!

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Concerns sparked.

*****

Suppose one eyesight

is getting poorer,

especially on nights,

or against the glares?

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Suppose one’s hearing

gets worse and can’t hear

vehicles horning behind?

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Suppose one’s reflexes

become slower

with aging and stiff joints?

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Independence and mobility

are vital for the

well-being of older people.

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Should their driving licenses

be screened medically?

Should public transports

be easily and freely

available to them?

…without them trying

to cross the heavy traffic,

or to the bus stops?

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Are the millions of

baby boomers

still driving?

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To bargain at a night market?

To bargain at a night market?

Night markets (Photo by NICE GUYS on Pexels.com)

A colleague complained about a busybody in- law.

“I notice you didn’t bargain when you bought vegetables at the night market just now! I could have gotten at least 30 cents less for them!”

“I would go for bigger and more expensive items to bargain! But certainly not in night markets where some are trying to eke a living!”

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Moral Of The Story Is…. — Garfieldhug’s Blog

Moral Of The Story Is…. — Garfieldhug’s Blog

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