Ostomy surgery: when gossips magnify problems…

Ostomy surgery: when gossips magnify problems…

Patient’s gossips about stoma…

This was in 1987. I remember it was an open ward. The male patients would gather to talk to each other. As doctors were trying to convince a patient to undergo an ostomy surgery, there might be ‘gossiping neighbors’ who would counteract the effort!

“Last week I met a patient who had cancer of the rectum. After operation, they put a bag on the tummy here. But it leaked and spilled all over! And the ‘stoma’ was so red, so big!”

We didn’t have trained specialized nurses in this field nor proper quality bags at that time. A few patients managed to get quality stoma bags and appliances imported from UK and US.

Today Malaysia has many trained enterostomaltherapists (ETs) and good quality ostomy bags in hospitals and pharmacies. The ETs would assist the colorectal surgeons to further explain about the conditions, surgery and the before and after operation care. They guide the patients on care for their stoma, its surrounding skin and how to use the stoma bags, etc.

I am not sure if patients still gossip like they used to! With proper pre and post operation care, these patients will be able to live a better quality life with a stoma.

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Breast cancer- a brave admission in art form

Breast cancer- a brave admission in art form (poem- a tercet)

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I saw this picture in the pexel collection,
I admire her bravery in admission
against femininely- accepted definition.

The pose seems to be for art-form
many would think it was not so warm
to be received as a new norm.

Mastectomees-by-choice will not frown
at the new level, she has taken taboo to,
for they will approve, too, privately with their open gowns.


happy asian woman with scars after breast removal
Breast cancer- a brave admission (Photo by Michelle Leman on Pexels.com)

Quote:-

I made a decision to have a preventive double mastectomy. I started with the breasts, as my risk of breast cancer is higher than my risk of ovarian cancer, and the surgery is more complex.- Angelina Jolie


Care beyond color, sex orientation, religion.

Care beyond color, sex orientation, religion.

This message came through my nurses’ group chat today. I am not a Christian, but I find this very true, indeed!

two person doing surgery inside room
Photo by Vidal Balielo Jr. on Pexels.com

Here’s the English translation 
”Definition of “hospital” … by the Pope.

POPE FRANCISCO ALWAYS SURPRISING WITH HIS REFLECTIONS:

“Hospital walls have heard more honest prayers than churches …

They’ve seen far more sincere kisses than kisses at airports …

It is at the hospital that you see a homophobic being saved by a gay doctor.

The “patricinha” doctor saving the life of a beggar …

In the ICU you see a Jew taking care of a racist …

A police patient and a prisoner in the same ward receiving the same care …

A rich patient in the liver transplant queue ready to receive the organ from a poor donor …

It is at these times when the hospital touches the wounds of people that universes intersect on purpose
divine and in this communion of destinies we realize that alone we are nobody!

The absolute truth of people, most of the time, only appears at the moment of pain or the real threat of definitive loss “

Hospital, a place where human beings strip off their masks and show themselves as they are in their true essences.

A SHOW OF ENVY IS AN INSULT TO ONESELF — Divine-Royalty

Envy is the root of all evil and it give birth to jealousy! It burns you from inside out. Do not get envy of others success. Be just as enthusiastic about the success of others As you are about get your own success. Jealousy is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have […]

A SHOW OF ENVY IS AN INSULT TO ONESELF — Divine-Royalty

A pug on my mug

Pug (Photo by Fabru00edcio Lira on Pexels.com)

A pug on my mug

Is this pup a pug?
as I looked at the picture
printed on my mug.

This is inspired by a story of a wrinkly pug ” The Pug.” while I was drinking my mug of cofee.

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It’s raining cats and dogs!

It’s raining cats and dogs!

person riding a bicycle during rainy day
Heavy rain (Photo by Genaro Servín on Pexels.com)

“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s about learning to dance in the rain.”Vivian Greene

I wonder if this depicts the current Covid-19 pandemic. Is it about learning how to live with it?

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It is raining cats and dogs out there!
Remember to take your umbrella!
But then comes the wind
and inverts the brolly!
When the floods come,
washing bodies of cats and dogs.
Is that what the idiom means?

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How children evolve like a butterfly!

How children evolve like a butterfly!

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Was Albert Einstein

Were there signs

to show that he would become

a great person one day?

Butterflies-to-be (Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com)

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There is nothing

in a caterpillar

that tells you

it’s going to be a

butterfly (one day!).

-R. Buckminster Fuller

Butterfly (Photo by Artem Beliaikin on Pexels.com)

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Such a short life of a beauty!

Such a short life of a beauty!

Hibiscus mixed species (courtesy of Joanne T)

My dear amateur gardener

was so happy,

her pot of flower blooms…

for the first time!

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It’s a mixed-species hibiscus!

A hybrid of red and white!

Awesome surprise!

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But …

it only lasted one day!

The next day

another bloomed!

Such a short life of a beauty!

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Such clear reflection in the stillness of water!

Such clear reflection in the stillness of water!

Clear reflection. (Photo by eberhard grossgasteiger on Pexels.com)

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In the utter stillness

of water,

almost like a mirror,

the reflection is so clear,

it mimics nature’s beauty!

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In the quietude

of one’s mind,

one sees clearly

as ones reflects!

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Decriminalize attempt suicide: Will it finally happen?

Decriminalize attempt suicide: Will it finally happen?

Hammer (Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com)

Cabinet has finally agreed to decriminalise suicide.

Is it finally going to happen?

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