Qingyan ancient town

Qingyan ancient town

By Toh Leong, my former teacher, 

(in trying to complete his bucket list)

The sun was low in the horizon, when we arrived in Qingyan ancient town two days ago. This town was built as a military base, dating back to tbe Ming dynasy, under emperor Zhu Yuanzhang. It still appears as a walled city surrounded by mountains n moats.

This ancient town was built entirely of stones n rocks. It withstood the weather n slow decay of the passing centuries.

After the “Golden Holidays,” there few tourists. Many local were wearing traditional attires n taking photos. We just wandered around, feeling good that we could “hike” into the 14th century. I recalled my history teacher talking about Zhu Yuanzhang, without registering it. History was boring when we were kids, but now I have great clarity of the many dynasties in China.

Often, I urge my friends to see the world, before we too become a minuscule fragment of history.

Waiting for his mechanic boy…

Waiting for his mechanic boy…

repairing vehicles (Photo by Malte Luk on Pexels.com)

Visitors were leaving bidding goodbyes, and kissing hands of their elderly kins.

There was a line figure – a weak and emaciated-looking old man waited patiently at the door with clutched hands, looking at the long corridor leading from the lifts.

A young bespectacled teenager came running along the corridors. The patient’ s face lit up.

The boy’s dusty mechanic overall was smeared with black oil. His sweaty breath oozed heavily as he panted smilingly.

As they sat down to share food from a tiffin carrier, the security was already on his round with his baton reminding visitors to leave.

“My boy just finished his ‘O’ level’ exam. He became the breadwinner as I am now unwell. There are just the two of us in the family.”

“They won’t issue a pass because I am not so ill apparently ( not bed-ridden). He finished work at five pm. He rushed through the traffic jam to reach here. The security must have held him up a bit before allowing him to come up.” The old man explained sadly.

A pass was issued explaining their situation. His presence was very important to the patient’s emotional well-being…in fact, for both of them.

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Hatyai to Bangkok by sleeper train

Hatyai to Bangkok by sleeper train

(by Toh Leong, my former teacher)

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We journeyed from Hatyai to Bangkok by the sleeper train. It took us from sunset to surise the next day.

The train was a bit bumpy… goyanglah. Some of my friends couldn’t sleep. It wasn’t an issue for me. My melatonin is still flowing nicely.

More than twenty persons agreed on this trip, but eventually pulled out. Personally, I feel we ought to complete this sort of arduous journey when we are younger, rather than later. My type of travelling is often to see the world or to climb a mountain. It is tiring.

I relax my the beach when I am home by the sea. Probably, I would take cruises when further down the timeline.

A wonderful stroke of luck…

Photo by Jill Wellington on Pexels.com

Remember that sometimes not getting what you want, is a          wonderful stroke of luck!           

Dalai Lama

 “When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one that has opened for us. ” – Alexander Graham Bell

Similarly, “to reach a port, we must sail- sail, not tie at anchor- sail, not drift.”  Franklin Roosevelt, 1882-1945

Ever felt that way about life choices and happenings in choosing a partner or a career, or even friends?

Looking positively at life!

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Another reunion write-up by my former teacher

Another reunion write-up by my former teacher

A reunion attended by Mr Toh

This article is written by a former teacher,  Mr. Toh Leong. He writes well. I had his prior permission to publish any of his postings from Facebook. I read about his being invited to a reunion by another group of former students…

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Mr Toh’s write-up

I was just invited to a reunion for my former students. I didn’t want to stand on ceremony; it was a wonderful opportunity to meet them again, along with some old colleagues who were also invited.

My past colleagues looked much the same, though I noticed a bald head or two and a few heads of white hair. The years have certainly pushed us further down the timeline.

Many of my former students reminded me that I was their chemistry teacher. While chemistry was my main subject, I also taught additional mathematics and general science. I was delighted to learn that two of my students became teachers themselves and have now retired. How time has flown.

I still don’t feel aged. I hold on to the perspective that age is just a number, and I believe that a positive attitude is key to maintaining a sense of youthfulness. As they say, “You are as old as you think.” Ultimately, our behavior emanates from the heart and mind.

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My note here

So Chemistry was Mr Toh’s major subject! Is that why I never quite understood his physics classes?

   Before the state final exam,  I devoured the whole three-inches-thick physic textbook, and finally , some of his lessons began to make sense.  If only I had studied before each class,  sir! Well, I managed to get a good credit ( a private college didn’t want to accept me for A level because I couldn’t understand the Chinese language.  In the end, the principal changed his mind when he saw my physics grade! )

Yet Mr Toh said, “Only a credit?” I was exasperated. (He had forgotten that I almost never passed any of his physic tests!)

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24 – easy to die

24 – easy to die

24 means ‘easy to die’

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  numbers in car park

twenty four is tis nice lot

but it’s two three A! 

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Quote

Fear is the main source of superstition, and one of the main sources of cruelty. To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom.
                                    –Bertrand Russell-

Science is the great antidote to the poison of enthusiasm and superstition.
                                    –  Adam Smith

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Still,  a matter of the peace of mind,  why challenge the superstition?

Bullies in the spotlight

Bullies in the spotlight

Bullying in schools is defined by Unesco as ‘a damaging social process’.

I am ashamed that my country is ranked fourth among the top in the world list!

Bullies…

What the bulliers think…

“I thought it was harmless fun, but I was wrong”

“Perhaps it gave us a sense of superiority…”

“… in truth,  it was an immature and cruel way of dealing with our own insecurities. “

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With that insight above,  perhaps bullies should be the enforcers against bullies in schools.

When our body knows best

When our body knows best

Feeling unwell

Going around in social media,  a young lady doctor signed a two-day medical leave because she felt unwell… and was chided.

I remember a nurse who told me they are allowed to take a two – day ( non-medically certified) leave to rest at home if they feel unwell.

I suppose our body knows best, and we should be allowed this privilege.

Just how much the country trusts its fellow citizen.

And if you are thinking of what I am thinking… it may save a live from a desperate emotional corner!