One week post-op!

One week post-op! by Glitteryguts

Found this old blog post just one week after receiving my stoma in 2015! I thought it would be great to get it published for any new or upcoming ostomates can have a read!  So as all of you are aware, I received surgery a week ago and now have a permanent stoma (ileostomy.) I […]

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One week post-op! by Glitteryguts

Crying tears of joys or pain?

Crying tears of joys or pain?

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“Are you laughing or crying?”

“I don’t know. It must be tears of joy!”

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Imagine going through labour pain…

Can pain be funny?

Childbirth (Photo by Jonathan Borba on Pexels.com)

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The two things in the world

we all share in this world

are laughter and pain.

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We’ve all got problems.

The levels of those problems vary,

but we’ve all got problems.

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When you can take things that are

painful and make them funny,

that’s a gift –

to you and your audience.

Kevin Hart

One, Two Buckle My Shoes!

One, Two Buckle My Shoes! (Poem, a tercet)

crop kid tying shoelaces on sneakers

One, Two Buckle My Shoes! (Photo by Allan Mas on Pexels.com)
One, two, buckle my shoes 
the day has yet to come through
a second more, let me snooze!

Three, four, open the door
slumped with backpack on the floor
legs out-stretched to the fore

Five, six, pick up stick
left, right, which is which?
putting them on without a hitch

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At what age, do most kids learn to tie their own shoelaces? 

My kids made it at about six to eight years of age.

Velco shoes were an easy alternative!

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The sixth sense of a mother towards a newborn in need.

The sixth sense of a mother towards a newborn in need.

A mother has sixth sense to a child’s cries? (Photo by Sarah Chai on Pexels.com)

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The hall was full

of chatters and laughters.

“Shhh…shhh!”

” What.. what happens?”

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They watched the new mother

walked slowly up the stairs,

with index finger on her lip.

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Next, she ran up quickly!

She opened the bedroom door.

Her pint-sized darling newborn,

was screaming his lungs out!

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Was it the high-pitched squeals

or her increased sensitivity to sound?

How many decibels

can a newborn’s cries hit?

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“You had to kill this child, I know”

I like this, “…This is the age you are broken or turned into gold.”

TheHappyQuitter's avatarThe Happy Quitter!

I start writing a comment, and what was supposed to be just a simple reply, started to get a life of its own and it got longer and longer -to the point that I was writing a blog post. The old saying

GETTING OLD IS MANDATORY, GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL

brought back memories and so it began. My fingers connected with my brain, and the thoughts started flowing right into the keyboard. The COMMENT got longer and more personal.

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Marriage: For better or for worse

Marriage: For better or for worse

This picture is a reminder about the wow married couples make during their D-day!

How fragile can a marriage be?

An educational psychologist illustrated the second quote below that how one squeezes a toothpaste tube (in the middle) became the triggering point for a divorce!

crop unrecognizable woman squashing plastic bottle
Squeezing the anger … (Photo by Anna Shvets on Pexels.com)

Quote:-

  1. Dave Meurer: “A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.”
  2. Don’t hang on to small annoyances. So many marriages have slowly deteriorated over the smallest, silliest things. Lisa Jacobson

Challenge of silence

Challenge of Silence : In this week , I am taking challenge of not speaking any word whole week , if their any important communication and emergency then I’ll contact or communicate only using what’s app and email. Benefits of Speaking Less Wise men speak when they have something to say. Fools speak because they […]

Challenge of silence

All mothers are working mothers.

All mothers are working mothers.

Mothers (Photo by RODNAE Productions on Pexels.com)

Quote:-

Good daughters make good mothers.– Abigail G. Whittlesey

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All mothers are working mothers.

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Home-makers are a full-time job.

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Balancing delicately between the two evils…

Balancing delicately between the two evils…

Photo by Jess Loiterton on Pexels.com

Lockdown is on!

Lockdown is off!

Not because it is safe now.

It’s to prevent the economy

from diving under!

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Thousands throng the beach,

and camp near waterfalls,

while hospitals continue to battle virus

and vans with caskets lined up

near burial grounds.

Many shudder at the ignorance

“Are lives so insignificant?”

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What will it take

for reality to sink-in

to convince them?

Or has a sense of hopelessness

breeds insensitivity

to block out fear and pain?

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Safety and health

or economy?

It’s a delicate balancing act!

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When three generations fire fireworks

When three generations fire fireworks

Fireworks (Photo by rovenimages.com on Pexels.com)

Seems like only ‘yesterday’

I was the one lighting

under your guidance

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today ‘we’ together,

are guiding my youngs.

.. three generations

firing a firework.

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It sparkles and crackles

Shooting up, up, up…

lighting up the sky!

Faces beamed in delight

putting memories of COVID-19 behind

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Happy Chinese New Year!

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