Communication between a duck and a chicken

Communication between a duck and a chicken

In a multilingual society, communication can be a challenge in our hospitals. Our main languages are English, Malay, Chinese, and Tamil. I learned a few simple Tamil words too.
Below was my experience communicating with an Indian estate worker who was admitted for a head injury. These were part of the neurological assessment on him.

“Open your mouth.” No response. “Buka mulut (in Malay).” No response. “Via to reh” he opened his mouth! He understood and obeyed the command! “
“Alright close your mouth.”But his mouth was still opened. “Tutup mulut (in Malay).” But his mouth was still open. I didn’t know how to say ‘close your mouth’ in Tamil. I had to physically close his mouth shut!

“Now hold my hands tightly.” No response.
“Pegang tangan kuat kuat (in Malay).” No response.
“Kai pu di” and he held my hands tightly! Proud to show that his hands were strong! There was obviously no weakness in his upper limbs.
“Okay, okay, let go, let go!” How to say ‘let go’ in Tamil? Ouch, ouch, I winced in pain. He saw it. So he let go of my hands!

Some of the young hospital staff I met were able to say some simple words in other languages like ‘what is your name?’ ‘any pain?’ ‘Have you eaten?’ Etc.
Most hospitals nowadays have interpreters as we have more international patients like Japanese, Korean, Arabs, etc.

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woman in pink long sleeved shirt and green floral skirt
Communication between a duck and a chicken (Photo by Nicholas Githiri on Pexels.com)

Quote:-

“The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn’t said.” – Peter Drucker.

Is a house, a home?

Is a house, a home? ( Haiku)

house lights turned on
It’s a house, a home? (Photo by Binyamin Mellish on Pexels.com)

What this house don’t have

that you must run away from?

It’s for want of love!

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Yes, the house is big

but the family’s broken!

Where’s substitute’s love?

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Quote:-

Home is the starting place of love, hope and dreams.”

Home is where Mom is. (I lost my mum at a young age. So I always go ‘home’ where my eldest sister is!)

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From womb to tomb

From womb to tomb

Birth (Photo by Rene Asmussen on Pexels.com)

“Nurses are there when the last breath is taken, and nurses are there when the first breath is taken.” – Christine Bell

Tomb (Photo by Tom Fisk on Pexels.com)

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Finding that equilibrium in family and society

Finding that equilibrium in family and society

water finding equilibrium

Water flow disrupted

finding its alternatives

equalizing equilibrium

to level the playing ground

typography luck technology blur

when ‘Yang’ forces are too strong

the ‘Yin’ comes to rescue

in family, work-life, or societies

aligning that ‘Yin-Yang’ harmony!

no matter how hopelessly life seem

in love, family, or work, remember

the universe is listening- an equipoise

like the sun sets, the sun will still rise tomorrow.

group of people sitting indoors

one man’s loss is another man’s gain

respecting work-force; one’s employees

that’s how profound human beings are

in finding that balance; that equilibrium.

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judgement scale and gavel in judge office

in mandating more equity with inequity

assigning financial, economy, and market shares

altering political systems affecting families and society

the effectiveness outcome, too, depicts a need for stability; an equilibrium.

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Quotes:-

  1. A system is in equilibrium when the forces constituting it are arranged in such a way as to compensate each other, like the two weights pulling at the arms of a pair of scales.  – Rudolf Arnheim
  2. Equilibrium is the profoundest tendency of all human activity. – Jean Piage

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Decriminalizing attempted suicide

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Decriminalizing attempted suicide

Uncle Simon Wong was a loving grandfather.
When he was diagnosed with cancer of the colon,
His son and daughter admitted him to the hospital.
This diagnosis was a double blow during a time
when his business just suffered the recession then.

He took his own life before surgery.
A suicide like this happens at a time when
the mind is at its utmost fragility and vulnerability.

Recent reports that attempted suicides were dealt
with being handcuffed, fines and imprisonment.

While the police force deals with criminals
‘hammering the hard-core nails into its place’,
Such a hammer would only smash these delicate beings
to shreds, irretrievable.

Attempted suicide is a cry for help, not a crime!
The tool to use is not the ‘hammer’ of the police force,
but ‘gentle, compassionate hands
of the healthcare and social welfare experts!

– Chen Song Ping, 2021-

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Some quotes on suicide prevention:-

  1. When you don’t have the strength to walk through the darkness. Reach for a hand.
  2. Your life is important to everyone around you.
  3. Even the strongest soldiers fall. Find the strength to get back up.

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A pleasant breakfast surprise in Hanoi!

A pleasant breakfast surprise in Hanoi!

A pleasant breakfast surprise in Hanoi

A breakfast surprise;
pleasant personal greeting!
Such a warm welcome!

This is a simple oriental breakfast in Hanoi. The idea didn’t cost much, but it conveyed such a warm personal greeting and welcome to start the day!

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Meditation is not what you think

Meditation is not what you think

… Watch the sunset on a beach. Watch the waves hit the shore. Absorb in their sounds and fury. These are a form of meditation, according to Breathwork India.

photo of a man sitting under the tree
Meditation is not what you think (Photo by Samuel Silitonga on Pexels.com)

When I went for a meditation retreat, I sat on a chair most of the times. I had problems with my knees then. The guru told me I can meditate even when sleeping!

I can understand why I felt so peaceful for hours doing my pottery works! It was my solace, especially when I was feeling down.

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Quotes:

SLEEP IS THE BEST MEDITATION – DALAI LAMA

“To let go does not mean to get rid of. To let go means to let be. When we let be with compassion, things come and things go on their own”  Jack Kornfield

Honey, where is my favorite shirt?

Honey, where is my favorite shirt?

shallow focus photography of clothes
Honey, where is my favorite shirt? (Photo by Artem Beliaikin on Pexels.com)

Honey, have you seen my favorite T- shirt? The one with the scale logo?

Here it is!

But some older ones had been sent to the orphanage or old folks home!

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Wow, you build new overhead cupboards on the wall?

Yea, your aunt needs more places to store some more clothes! Some are more than ten years old!

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Quotes:

Your home is living space, not storage space.- Francine Jay

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Pages of yesterday, today and tomorrow

Pages of yesterday, today and tomorrow

My teacher forwarded a good morning message:-

Pages of yesterday cannot be revised, but pages of today and tomorrow are blank and you hold the pen. Make it an inspiring story.

It inspires me to review it.

Pages (Photo by Nitin Arya on Pexels.com)

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Pages of yesterday

can be read and

learned positively.

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Pages of today

are in the making,

so tread mindfully.

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Pages of tomorrow

are blank,

make it

an inspiring story.

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Will hope come a-hopping into 2022?

Will hope come a-hopping into 2022?

Hope (Photo by Aaron Burden on Pexels.com)

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Look up towards the sky

for rays of sunlight

for rays of hope

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Go away, COVID-19

Go away rains and flood

will hope come a- hopping in

to give a new clean start

this 2022?

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