We all love compliments. They make us feel good about ourselves and appreciated for our efforts. Compliments can also improve our motivation and general wellbeing. But what happens when your way of getting people to say nice things about you comes off as fishing for compliments?
Since you are here reading this post, I’m guessing you either fish for compliments or know someone who does it and you are looking for a way to deal with them. But do you understand why people fish for compliments? Do you know how to know when someone is fishing for compliments?What does fishing for compliments even mean?
Fishing for compliments means that you try to make people say nice things about you by pretending to be modest about things to get them to disagree and reassure you by giving you praise. It is similar to the actual act of fishing with a…
Let’s go home – is about a tired weary day at office and being caught in a daily three hours traffic jam all the way home, with the beautiful setting sun as consolation!
Counter service (Photo by Andrea Piacquadio on Pexels.com)
It was an amusing morning. I sat and watched the frontliners serving clients over the counter.
There were transparent acrylic panels in front of each staff. But, the clients have the tendency to move their heads to the side of the panel to talk to the staff!
An acrylic panel
Psychologically, it was like “I can’t see you!” or ” I can’t hear you!” through these panel! Luckily they were all wearing masks!
Frontliners at busy counters are like sitting ducks to potential virus carriers!
Found this old blog post just one week after receiving my stoma in 2015! I thought it would be great to get it published for any new or upcoming ostomates can have a read! So as all of you are aware, I received surgery a week ago and now have a permanent stoma (ileostomy.) I […]
Chen SP: Healthcare staff and ostomates especially, should read about her experience one week after her ileostomy surgery. Please read on at
I start writing a comment, and what was supposed to be just a simple reply, started to get a life of its own and it got longer and longer -to the point that I was writing a blog post. The old saying
GETTING OLD IS MANDATORY, GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL
brought back memories and so it began. My fingers connected with my brain, and the thoughts started flowing right into the keyboard. The COMMENT got longer and more personal.